bonez

Account Executive

Do you work to live or live to work?

I ran into an old sales mentor that put so much about my career into perspective.

Wanted to see how the war room felt about the question here.

For so much of my career I was living to work and trying to become a C level. Then I moved to sales.

Now I feel like a hired gun and happy with that. I want to work to enjoy life with my family and don't really care how far up the ladder I go. Sales gets me enough money to live the life I want and frankly I'm happy with that now. Personally I'd rather spend money doing my hobbies and spending time with my family than working 12 hours to make big bucks in the VP/C-suite.

Curious what the rest of the war room feels like with this? How many here are trying to get things moving to get into a C-level spot, or how many are happy sharpening their skills to be better at sales and let the pieces fall where they may?

Do you:

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Live to work - trying to be at the top of the food chain and make the biggest bucks Work to Live - enjoy your hobbies, family, and life outside of sales even if you cap $ Lork to Wive - Fuck Normalcy, Embrace Chaos

*Voting in this poll no longer yields commission.

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CuriousFox

WR Officer

19

🦊

Working to pay another month of my life alert subscription. 🚨

bonez

Politicker

3

Account Executive

You'd think the costs would go down over time but they just don't. Rat bastards know I hit the button just to talk to someone and then charge me for it.

Sunbunny31

Politicker

10

Sr Sales Executive 🐰

Was never interested in climbing ladders. I'm very happy being an IC, and leveraging what I earn to do things I like to do!

bonez

Politicker

1

Account Executive

I used to be a ladder climber in my marketing days but now I realize how pointless that feels. I'm so happy being an IC and kinda doing my own thing as long as I'm making what I need to give my family the life we want. Love this perspective.

Kosta_Konfucius

Politicker

6

Sales Rep

I wouldn't do it for free, so feel like it has to be Work to Live

bonez

Politicker

3

Account Executive

I feel that - this job at it's core kinda sucks so the large paychecks help. It's just nice it can provide a nice life without having to become a company person.

UserNotFound

Politicker

5

Account Executive

In August of this year I was at a happy hour where someone in leadership at my company told me that I need to find a way to sever the tie between personal me and professional me because I wrap my entire self into my performance. Bad month at work? My anxiety tells me I must also be a bad mom, partner, child, etc. I don’t struggle the other way around.

Ever since then I’ve been working on “finding” myself outside of my roles as sales-Queen, mom, & wife. It’s oddly been a really difficult journey because I don’t even know what I like/dislike when i take other ppl out of the equation.

bonez

Politicker

3

Account Executive

Love this and I felt like this was me when I first got into sales. Honestly therapy helps figuring this out and made me realize I am not my job and this is another tool to live the life I want. At the end of the day I'm much happier talking about my hobbies than my job and I'm finally ok with that. You're more than your number and your life is bigger than being in sales.

SADNESSLieutenant

Politicker

5

Officer of ♥️

lork to wive all day

Sunbunny31

Politicker

3

Sr Sales Executive 🐰

Since dolphin noises weren't available on this poll, amirite?

SADNESSLieutenant

Politicker

3

Officer of ♥️

ah yes. a cultured war room member.

bonez

Politicker

1

Account Executive

This is the true answer tbh

TennisandSales

Politicker

3

Head Of Sales

FOR SURE work to live. I have worked SUPER hard to have a career that can support the lifestyle I want. and ive also been intentional on not making work my entire life.

bonez

Politicker

2

Account Executive

I'm working on being more intentional with this as well now. Learning when I can disconnect and when I need to be fully in it. NO sense in burning out for a company that might throw me to the wayside one day.

TennisandSales

Politicker

1

Head Of Sales

for sure! its a little easier when you have a family, and can gauge how much time you are spending with them vs at work. if I was single it would be really hard to know when to turn work off haha

bonez

Politicker

1

Account Executive

SERIOUSLY! The family 100% helps keep things in check from a time management perspective. Single people that have healthy work boundaries are superheroes.

Pachacuti

Politicker

3

They call me Daddy, Sales Daddy

My vocation pays for my avocations.

bonez

Politicker

0

Account Executive

My man

Diablo

Politicker

2

Sr. AE

I love to keep balance of everything - professional life, personal life, social life etc. I like doing what I am doing as I can do all the above as well.

Jaed

Executive

2

Inside Sales Rep

You know, I’ve made the same realization. I’d rather work to live and have hobbies, time with friends & family, and maybe start a side-hustle turned small business.

I used to live to work. Then, I got bitter because I wasn’t getting anywhere and started freelancing to launch a small business. But that’s harder than it looks!

I realized that I need the work to live mentality for stability towards financial freedom. When that happens, the financial freedom will give me the opportunity to “climb the ladder” with investments, savings, the title of entrepreneur, etc.

FinanceEngineer

Politicker

2

Sr Director, sales and partnerships

You gotta live the business. When you have a family, that allows you to take your foot off of the gas and not take a hit on income.

antiASKHOLE

Tycoon

1

Bravado's Resident Asshole

I work to enjoy life.

bonez

Politicker

0

Account Executive

I feel like I’m finally here with ya.

countingmyinterest

Politicker

1

Account Executive

I live to work - I like to work a lot. But it doesn't have to be at my normal day job.

I like my investments/side hustle and love to work on those. My sales job provides me enough $ to tide me over and pursue that. Ultimately my investments still make me money.

DC540

Opinionated

1

Sales Development Manager

I also insisted on climbing the ladder until jumping off became a better option for my wants/needs. It’s ok to change your mind on what you want from life.

Now, I just wanna make a shit ton of money with no responsibility over other people aside from my kid.

Nairobi

Politicker

1

AE

Ah easy, Work to Live! Life would be miserable if you live to work. We have one life, please enjoy it instead of killing yourself for a job that doesn't care about you

justatopproducer

Politicker

0

VP OF SALES -US

Used to be the live to work. Top 2 in sales in my company 6/7 years straight. Moved up to bigger things, # 1 for 3 years, moved up as far as I could and moved on, then was top 1% at the next F500 company. Moved on to be Vp of sales over the US and started working 17-18 hour days, 7 days a week. Killed myself and when it came time to be promoted they held my commission and gave the title to the acting cfo and co-founder. From that point on I knew no matter how hard I worked it all came down to who I knew. If I ever feel like working my life away again like that I will just start my own company. Doing anything yourself for 17-18 hours a day everyday will eventually result in you making millions for yourself. Just remember that if you ever have that choice. Do I want to lull myself for someone else to make millions while I make $200k or make millions for myself.

ChunkyButters

Tycoon

0

AE

I spend way too much money on my personal life not to go to work

Palladium_Rog

Valued Contributor

0

Account Executive

As much as I don't see myself without work, I will set clear boundaries when work becomes too much. Love chasing the dollar but there has to be "me" time in it.

TechSalesTom

Member

0

Creator

Definitely work to live, I got into tech sales specifically to maximize my income and cut down on working years. Double or triple up on jobs if you need to, life is short!

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