I've been in my role now for the past 3 months and can definitely say that it's not something I see myself in. TLDR - I prefer a slightly more mature startup, but the one I'm in is a newly founded startup, building a product and trying to see how to go to market with it. After being here for 3 months, I'm only now aware that I thrive better in a more structured environment whilst still experiencing the flexibility and rigour of a startup. Secondly, the product isn't something I'm that interested in as well. Thirdly, culture is pretty... erm, meh.
So far, I've had no issues getting shortlisted for interviews by recruiters, but when it comes to the hiring manager/director stage, they question my ability to stay in a role for long. Questions like "if you've not been in your role for long, how do I know if you can stay in our company? Agree?" come up often and this is my answer:
"Hey yea I understand where you're coming from, totally valid concerns for you to have btw. But here's what I've learnt from my experiences and why I have no regrets making my decisions -- It is true that I have failed to assess certain things in my past roles which has resulted in my departure after a short while, but those so-called failures or missteps in the roles I've had have taught me a whole lot about myself and I count these experiences as necessary experiences in life in order to know what I truly want so I can go after it wholeheartedly, which is what I'm doing right now. Right now, I look at things long-term in a strategic manner like understanding the stage that the company is at and where it can be, the kind of challenges I'll be in and being able to assess whether these are challenges I wanna take on, making sure there are resources for me to tap on, visualising my career here based on the team dynamics here etc etc. I'm considering these things way more thoroughly and I want to assure you that having had these kinds of experiences, I'm very committed in finding an organisation that I can see myself in long-term, and I'm also looking for an organisation that sees past my current situation and believes in my potential and what I could be"
I've still gotten rejected because they think I'm not dedicated enough to stay in a role and are too afraid to take a chance on me. How can I better my answers? Thanks everyone!
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