Jealousy

Salespeople are jealous - whether someone else is at the top of the leaderboard, or someone else got promoted, or someone got shouted out on slack.


How do you handle jealousy among your teams?



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LordOfWar
Tycoon
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Blow it up
The only true competitor that matters is yourself. Be better than you were yesterday.
braintank
Politicker
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Enterprise Account Executive
Only response to jealously is: "try harder"

Use it as fuel.

If you just stew on it with no action you're always going to finish lower, get passed over, etc.
Sunbunny31
Politicker
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Sr Sales Executive ๐Ÿฐ
Who's jealous?

If there's favoritism, then that is a whole other problem.

But if they are not as successful as another rep and therefore don't get the callouts, who cares if they're jealous? Suck it up and go win some deals.
CuriousFox
WR Officer
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Very nice call out here ๐Ÿ”ฅ
NotCreativeEnough
Big Shot
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Professional Day Ruiner
jealousy is a problem and shows bad character for that person.

Competitiveness however.. that's exactly what you want out of a salesperson. It gives them that drive to hit the top of the leaderboard, get that shout out, get that promotion, whatever, as opposed to whine about the other person getting it and not them.
jefe
Arsonist
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Haters gon hate.
butwhy
Politicker
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Solutions Engineer
Buy people booze and compliment their hair.
Mobi85
Politicker
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Regional Sales Manager
Thunderdome and the one that survives gets the hot leads next month.
CaaSUnicorn7
Opinionated
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SDR (Sales Development Rep)
Honestly jealous is a waste of time, signs a sore loser was hired rather than a competitive resilient salesperson

Canโ€™t imagine spending time on jealousy when I could be trying to find out why and how theyโ€™re crushing it!
ThatNewAE
Big Shot
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Account Executive - Mid enterprise
Jealousy is normal amongst sales folks. I get jealous too - but then that has to be to push you to be harder, and not sulk and withdraw tbh.

When I see someone envying what I am doing, I really just distance myself. Put some distance between that person and you, and I don't get into any discussions about me for a while.
AnchorPoint
Politicker
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Business Coach
Interesting... those behaviors are rarely present from those above/ahead, only from those looking up from behind.
Pachacuti
Politicker
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They call me Daddy, Sales Daddy
I dealt with that years ago when I started a new job the same day are 3 others. In 3 months I had a full+ funnel and they were still learning the technology. I made the mistake of having empathy for them and tried to help them. It just made them resent my success more.

Lesson learned - just keep your head down and do your work. When asked "the secret to your success" - just shrug your shoulders and walk away.
saasbaby
Politicker
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SDR
If someone is performing better than me, I congratulate them and ask about their process to see if I can take anything and use it for myself to be better.

I like to compete with myself, but I am human so I do get a tinge of jealousy... I use that as motivation.
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Do we think sales GURUs are full of shit or just like mostly full of shit?

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Are sales gurus
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Sums up exactly how I feel about thisโ€ฆ

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Opinion: no amount of "grit" will help you in sales if you're dumb

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