I work in male-dominated IT, but I'm confident this happens to women in every sales org. What do you do when a prospect gets inappropriate? Share your stories and responses. I think we could learn a lot from each other.
I'll go first:
I was on a sales call at a manufacturing plant in the deep south - just to really set the stage. I used to work in manufacturing with steel toes and all, so I was dressed appropriately in jeans with a blouse and a blazer. The blouse was a very moderate neckline. At most, you could see my collar bones.
We get into the meeting. We've met with these guys a few times, but the lead decision maker is finally joining. He comes in late, shakes every hand but mine, and settles down directly across from me. I'm presenting at the front of the room. I realize he is straight staring at my chest. Not even trying to hide it.
This goes on for close to 30 minutes, with me trying to decide how to say something without getting called a 'bitch' or losing the sale. I kept asking him questions, and he would answer without taking his eyes off my chest. Finally, my engineer stepped in and called him out.
He blinked, blushed, and then laughed - so we all laughed it off even though WTF man. There have been plenty of inappropriate comments, and I'm normally one to laugh these things off. But being drooled over like that was the most violating feeling.
I was thankful for my engineer, but I don't want to rely on him. Interested in what responses have worked for others!
Can't wait to hear all your cringe-worthy stories!
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