Stoics

I’ve become a fan of Ryan Holiday over the past year. He’s helped me put many things into perspective. Today’s post was a good one.


Musonius Rufus, whose story is told in Lives of the Stoics, knew a thing or two about pining for normal. After all, he was unjustly exiled four times, including once to a desolate island named Gyara. While he languished there, missing his old life, hating his provincial existence, he stopped to remind himself and his fellow exiles that “when we were home, we did not enjoy the whole earth, nor did we have contact with all men.” Normal was a mirage, he was saying, because when he could do the things he missed, most of the time, he chose not to, just as 90% of New York City never actually took the time to enjoy the city’s amenities while they were open—even before the pandemic. Just as your normal life was mostly filled with obligation, busyness, killing time and complaining. 


Besides, Musonius pointed something else out. Did he not still have access to sun, water, and air? Could he not still do good? Could he not still study philosophy? Could he not still find a way to be happy, even in exile? Of course he could! In fact, stripped of distraction and unlimited options, he might even be able to do it better than he could before. 


And so it goes for us. ‘Normal’ does not exist. If it does, it should be something that, coming out of the pandemic, we actively try to avoid. Instead, we should be creating a new normal, a new world, one built around what we have learned over the last year. As you go back out into the world, vaccinated, chastened, wiser for what you’ve experienced, you must create a better life. You should be preserving the things you learned, that you tried over the last you. You should be making changes based on what you experienced. You should be stronger and more prepared for things to change again.”


Because they will. Normal does not exist. Believing in it is the enemy.

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Chep
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Agreed. Going along with something because people deem it normal usually result in atrocities.
Mr.Pickles
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words of wisdom - is this wisdom wednesday? :P 
CuriousFox
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Yes. Choosing what something means helps to learn how to detach emotion from the outcome.
funcoupons
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Stoic teachings helped me get through the worst of the pandemic, I'm a big big fan. 
Kinonez
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I had never heard of stoic, but this message got to me. I’ll definitely Google Stoic on the weekend. Any piece of material you recommend?
goose
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Ryan Holiday is the man.  He has a one or two minute podcast every day.  Must listen...
Kinonez
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Will do, thanks for the recommendation! 
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