I'm a software vendor looking for some advice.
Was at an event (sports game) with multiple vendors/prospective customers.
I was trying hard to meet one customer in particular as she is the CISO and decision maker for a sales cycle for my solution. Was introduced to her by another vendor and we hit it off.
At some point, event ended, go to a bar with CISO and her team along with a few other vendors. In a group of 20 or so, I start talking with the CISO 1/1.
We are talking about everything OTHER than work and hitting it off. I wasn't just buzzed, but there was some serious sexual tension building.
At one point we go outside just the two of us to vape together. She puts her hand on my arm. It's getting real.
An hour or so later, everyone is getting ready to leave. We say our goodbyes and she whispers to me as we are hugging "we're gonna walk to our cars together". So she says goodbye to her team and we say that our cars are parked in the same direction.
Once we leave everyone else behind, we go to a different bar. It's dark. She's sitting way too close. She starts rubbing my leg with her hand. At one point she leans in to whisper something in my ear.
We go to the back patio and start making out.
We leave the bar, go to her place and hook up.
1 - what the hell do I do now?
2 - is this is sales qualified opp?
3 - seriously, what the hell do I do?
Don't think it matters, but we are both mid-30s and single
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