so I switched companies about 4.5 years ago. got a great offer I couldn't refuse. the company I was leaving had a great leader I looked up to and who mentored me. but when I left he basically stopped returning my phone calls. I had invited him to my wedding even, but after I switched not only did he not come, he didn't even RSVP.
I am at a different company now, but it just so happens I work in conjunction with this old company. I saw this person at an event and it seemed like he was avoiding me. Am I the asshole here for continuing to be frustrated about it and upset and thinking he'll be the bigger person? am I obsessing? would anyone here do it the same as he did it? I have other mentors who kept in touch and confused to support me after I left. I guess it was just so disappointing, he was such a supporter and a major reason for my success early on in my career. and now it kind of puts a damper on things I am working on with this old company.
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