For Those With Children How Much Does It Cost You To Raise One?

Yearly Cost Per Child

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Pachacuti
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They call me Daddy, Sales Daddy
Dude.

If you have to ask you canโ€™t afford one.
oldcloser
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Arz
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Business Administration
lol
Chep
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Bitcoin Adoption Specialist
Didnโ€™t stop me ;)
medhardwaredr
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Director of Sales NA
Ha true that!
Pachacuti
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They call me Daddy, Sales Daddy
lol...me neither. I just never asked.
NoToBANT
Catalyst
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Senior Account Executive
The honest answer is as much as you like

Depending on your disposable income you may choose brand new over used, luxury brands over store brands.

You may decide to enrol them in no extra-curricular activities or many

The most expensive stuff Straight of the bat, especially things you shouldnโ€™t do cheap:
- Formula (if not breastfeeding)
- cot and mattress
- white noise machine
- soluble foods (for when they start to eat)

IndianaShep
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Director of Sales and Marketing
Yo, diapers and childcare. Woof.
medhardwaredr
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Director of Sales NA
My god who has raised a kid for 10-20k? Phucing diapers are like 10k๐Ÿ˜‚!
jefe
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I voted wrong and meant to hit the $20K+
SiliconBBQ
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The Metal Rooster
Same
poweredbycaffeine
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Daycare is over 30k/year
Formula was $40 every 10 days
Clothing was a lot and never stops
Real food bill went up $50 a week
Trip to childrenโ€™s hospital for 3 nights $5.5k
The list goes on
poweredbycaffeine
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Oh and diapers at one point cost nearly as much as my car payment.
Chep
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Bitcoin Adoption Specialist
Diapers are indeed what Iโ€™ve dropped the most money on ahhahaha
Sunbunny31
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Sr Sales Executive ๐Ÿฐ
I even did cloth/diaper service as much as possible...and it was not cheap any way you looked at it.
IndianaShep
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Director of Sales and Marketing
How much is your time worth changed its meaning as I had each kid.
Avon
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Senior Account Executive
30k a year for daycare for 1 kid?
poweredbycaffeine
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Yup. You read that right.
Avon
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Senior Account Executive
Bay Area?
poweredbycaffeine
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Bay State
coletrain
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Account Executive
Absolutely not out of the question, getting into a daycare is genuinely an endeavor
poweredbycaffeine
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I called every week and then every other day to get a spot in one of three daycares near me.
Sunbunny31
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Sr Sales Executive ๐Ÿฐ
Holy ned. I had daycare for 12k/year not all that long ago. With provided breakfast & lunch. Unbelievable that youโ€™re at more than twice that. Unreal.
Justatitle
Big Shot
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Account Executive
Yupโ€ฆ
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Founding BDR
Iโ€™m practically still a child and shitโ€ฆIโ€™m expensive
CuriousFox
WR Officer
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It's pricey as hell my dude.
HVACexpert
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sales engineer
Diapers, food, formula, etc. is one thing. The main thing is daily regular child care , because if you need a nanny or daycare that is what gets most expensive.
Justatitle
Big Shot
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Account Executive
Daycare, food, house size, college fund, etc all have to be factored in. The number could be millions and I wouldnโ€™t trade it for the world though
jefe
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My guy is around 7 months and formula is fucking insane. Including tax it's ~$60 Canadian every 4 days. We look for sales and stock up. Diapers get expensive, even at Costco. Ditto for wipes.

He's our first, so there were a lot of major purchases. We got a really good stroller so that was about $2K with tax. Same with high chair so it was close to $700. Infant car seat was like $600 and we'll have to get the bigger one soon.

Crib was like $800 but some people go to Pottery Barn and drop $2K. For me, the things with moving parts/safety concerns are what you should spend the real money on.

We were fortunate to be gifted a lot of clothes.

Thank God Canada is moving towards $10/day day care for the most part. The challenge is actually getting a spot. I have friends that were spending over $2K/month.
FoodForSales
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lets just say that a condom is MUCH cheaper
J.J.McLure
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Owner at *redacted*
Letโ€™s include housing cost too. We were renting a small 2 bedroom place when our 2nd son was born. The bedrooms were 100sqft, so barely enough room for a cot, not enough for a 2nd bed. Which means having to move. We were living in one of the most expensive cities in North America, but had lucked out on this place and we had very cheap rent at $1650. Prices went crazy after we were locked in at that price, so moving anywhere with a 3rd bedroom at least would have doubled our rent. That eats up the $20k right there

J.J.McLure
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Owner at *redacted*
I worked for a guy once who had 4 girls and then just had a boy. He wants his son in the NHL, and he was even born in the right month, so as soon as the kid can stand up he has a plan that will cost around $50k/year to get him all the training & equipment to make it happen. He expects that it will get more expensive as he gets in his teens, up to like $100k/year. I sure hope the kid likes hockey!
Sunbunny31
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Sr Sales Executive ๐Ÿฐ
Just wait til your little girl discovers ponies.
Chep
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SalesBeast
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Sales Director
Avon
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Senior Account Executive
What city is this?
FinanceEngineer
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Sr Director, sales and partnerships
My nanny is like $1300 a week, plus a monthly metro card , a couple of weeks vacation a year, and taxes on top. That doesnโ€™t include taxes, food, clothing, events, etc. donโ€™t forget about school, which is another fresh hell.
RckChlkG33k
Big Shot
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AE (Account Executive)
Are these annual figures?
MeowMeow
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Senior Enterprise Account Executive
I can barely keep myself alive on six figures. Even the thought of children sends me into poverty.
coletrain
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Account Executive
I don't have a kid however I have nephews.
From siblings, it's absolutely above 20k for daycare per child by itself. Not to mention everything else associated with raising a child.
fuzzy
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CMO (Chief Meme Officer)
I have 3. Itโ€™s not terrible once you realize you donโ€™t need to buy all the toys, etc. We use cloth diapers 75% of the time. Our highest cost is probably snacks for them and then dinner food.
They love eggs so we got chickens. Not necessarily a huge cost savings, but itโ€™s cool to have pets for them to care for that give us something back.

If I send them to private school, Iโ€™ll probably be spending $15-30k a year on that. Iโ€™m in the process of setting up a Montessori/classical co-op, so depending on the teacher costs, etc. I may actually spend less.
IndianaShep
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Director of Sales and Marketing
This depends how bullish you want to be on allocating costs. Do you divide the delay of the house you would have versus the house do have because of the need for extra rooms? Etc?

Do you live by free childcare/family/friends?

My wife and I make a shitton but it melts away pretty quickly.

Also, averse medical conditions play in pretty heavily.

Also, lol, Iโ€™m writing this at my kidโ€™s soccer skills
clinic. Soโ€ฆ
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