Impostor syndrome

So recently I was in a meeting with some of the people of HR, they had asked me to do so because I had been a top performer for some months even though we went through major strategy and structural changes for our company. They wanted to know what was I doing, what made me go into sales and all that good stuff.


To answer here what I said, for full disclosure, I told them that I simply try to apply what my mangers as much as I can to my abilities, see what works, see what doesn't and add my own sauce to it. Also, sale had petrified me for so long because of all the clichés one can think of, so I caved in to a referral from a friend, who had been telling to join his company in the sales dpt, so here we are hahaha.


In short, I just show up with grit and get the job done, also being organized helps a bunch. That's more or less how the conversation went.


However, I don't feel I'm actually the best at this nor am I like the one that turns in the most opportunities to AE's. And yet I'm always in the top tier and always feel like I don't deserve being up there. Does any else have this going on or had it happen to them?

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Broncosfan
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I’ve been faking it for years. I even worked at a C Suite consulting company. Its not until you have to talk to someone who knows nothing that you realize how much you actually know. You know way more than you believe right now and it’s translating into success.
NoSuperhero
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BDR LEAD
I'm starting to see a lot of us go through this throughout most of lifes hahaha
Mr.Pickles
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Sr. Customer Success Manager
Agree
CuriousFox
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Fake it til you make it.
CoorsKing
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Retired King of the Coors Knights
I have averaged 170% attainment each year so far and I still have days where I feel like I don’t know what I’m doing or I’m not qualified enough. Imposter syndrome is a real thing. I am starting a new job next week and am candidly quite nervous I won’t live up to their expectations. 

I think that is what it boils down to for me, I am more concerned with meeting other people’s expectations of me than I am with focusing on learning and growing as an individual if that makes sense?
CharmingSalesGal
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Great perspective- I also went through this when starting my new job. I put up some pretty big numbers at my last job but can I do it at this one? Putting my mind towards more learning & growing at this company has already put me in a position where everyone knows I'll succeed and bring in some big ones!
NoSuperhero
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BDR LEAD
For sure it makes sense!!! This is like what I go through everyday of my life. Thank you for the input BigMeech!
DrunkenArt
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Sales Representative
I feel everyone in sales goes through this cycle. Even if hit 100%+ of my quota, there's always going to be peaks and valleys with it. Some days I wonder why I even bother trying and other days I feel on top of the world. 
NoSuperhero
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BDR LEAD
Them valley's feel like Death Valley at times tho. 
CaneWolf
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Nobody has any fucking idea what they're doing. One of things about Impostor Syndrome is the belief that other people know their shit. Let me assure you, having talked to founders of successful start-ups to people running divisions of Fortune 500 companies, they do not. 
TheRealPezDog
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Account Manager
This is a really underrated comment, wish I could upvote it 100 times because it's SO FUCKING TRUE.  Right place Right time is how most "Senior Execs" made it... Ain't NONE OF US know what the hell we're doing... 
Grimhelm
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Mid Market Account Executive
This has been most of my sales career. When someone tells me to explain success, I just say I do the job. I know the feeling of not seeing yourself as the best or deserving of praise. Look at it like you are obviously doing something right and for that just keep going and you will get to better places.
CharmingSalesGal
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Account Executive
I constantly had a manager that would say "trust the process" and it was quite annoying but to an extent, he was right. Obviously you should always be learning and trying new things but all in all, do the job.
NoSuperhero
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BDR LEAD
So True!!! I mean, if they are there, it's for a reason. I hope hahaha
1nbatopshotfan
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Imposter syndrome will go away. When you retire :-) 

I think it’s healthy. You’re pushing yourself and growing. The discomfort means that you’re out there and pushing yourself. Good work! 
TheRealPezDog
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Account Manager
YES 1000%, I did a post about this about a month ago:  https://bravado.co/war-room/posts/something-i-would-never-post-on-linkedin
SlinginSoftware
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Account Executive
I've felt this every day since day one of my sales career haha. It's something I just try to block out of my mind as it can really contribute to my anxiety. 
NoSuperhero
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BDR LEAD
Anxiety is a bitch I hear you dude
Boutdamtime
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Client Executive
Every day since I’ve started this new job almost 2 years ago. I try to focus on what I know about the product, how it can help, and maintain my sense of integrity to get my through the imposter syndrome feelz. Just keep showing up every morning and do your best and if that’s not enough you can be honest with yourself and say you truly gave it your all.
slaydie
Big Shot
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Account Executive
Yes! Totally feel all of the feels you expressed. Fake it till you make it they say
NoSuperhero
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BDR LEAD
But are we really faking it?? I hear it but I just do me everyday and that's it, you know?
slaydie
Big Shot
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Account Executive
That's true! I guess we aren't faking it. We're just doing our work and then sometimes people think you have a magical formula and you're like...umm nope, just doing my job haha.
NoSuperhero
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BDR LEAD
Hahaha that's what I'm saying, too hilarious!
slaydie
Big Shot
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Account Executive
Just keep doing you! It's a good problem to have
duckduckgos
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Business Development
I completely feel you @PMAisTheOnlyWay imposter syndrome can happen to all of us. The most encouraging thing I read is that you show up everyday with grit and resilience. That is a mindset that can help propel you to success regardless of where you are. Thank you for sharing this, I feel the same way often. 
SaaSguy
Tycoon
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Account Executive
Luck is a real part of sale. There is an element to achieving success that is entirely out of our hands which I think creates this imposter syndrome dilemma for us. My advice is internalize the fact that you are the shit! Keep grinding and make your own luck.
draculina
Fire Starter
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process development specialist
That’s how the best usually feels because what you do seems so simple to you, you don’t think you’re doing a good job. 

Not directly sales but former sales support here. I was a specialist, trained from the core, and I never believed I was doing a good job. To me, it felt like I was going through the motions. 

then I realised, mostly during wfh, that what I did was HARD. what i felt to be simple was hard. as. fuck. I just thought it was simple, because i was good at doing it. 

if your success is quantitive (how much you earn the company etc) especially, it means you are THAT good and you deserve it. Rest easy. 
salesandstrategy
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Senior Account Executive
The crazy thing about impostor syndrome, is it hits high performers, often moreso that average or below average performers. 

I have battled with it at times absolutely. It can be daunting when you get to the point where you have lots of responsibility and know how to do none/almost none of it.
Incognito
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Master of Disaster
That’s probably because we actually care
salesandstrategy
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Senior Account Executive
Skin in the game helps hold proper incentives. 
Incognito
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Master of Disaster
I feel this *all the time* I get all clammed up in my head but when I start talking all that stuff starts spewing out like a firehose and I think “huh. I guess I know stuff”. Thank you for posting about it! You’re definitely not alone.
diet75
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Enterprise AE
Many times, a bad experience at a company or even a poorly equipped parent/guardian, boss, romantic partner, etc. can create a voice in your head that says "you're a fraud and they're all going to find out."

Happens to nearly everyone I know - most often when they get recognized for their success, like a promotion or a new job offer or even just being told that they're a top performer.


Therapy helps a ton, every good sales person I know regularly sees a therapist.
NoSuperhero
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For sure! Thank you Le0ng! I tried therapy a couple of times, and well am wanting to jump back in but time and lack of appointments through my health insurance makes it a little difficult. But it's def in the plans

VincentAdultman
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Enterprise Account Executive
I cant help but imagine when Michael Scott is brought into corporate to explain how he's been doing so well.
Kinonez
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War Room Enthusiast
I have faked this once or twice 
FightingFistDrangon
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Director of Sales
A lot of people feel that way. But to be honest your problably more skilled than you think. 
MaximumRaizer
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Sales Manager
Nobody has any fucking idea what they're doing. One of things about Impostor Syndrome is the belief that other people know their shit.
Blackwargreymon
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MDR
This has been most of my sales career. When someone tells me to explain success, I just say I do the job.
Clashingsoulsspell
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I have averaged 170% attainment each year so far and I still have days where I feel like I don’t know what I’m doing or I’m not qualified enough. Imposter syndrome is a real thing. I am starting a new job next week and am candidly quite nervous I won’t live up to their expectations. 
NotThatGuy
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BDR
real thing 

deviantzen
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Consultant
I’ve felt these feelings then actually failed at my job and got fired before Until that happens it’s probably fine
bareknuckles
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CEO of my kitchen table
I think this every time I see the "SVP" in front of my title. I also think there are so many c-level executives I have met that are dumb AF. Based on what you said it sounds like you grind and get the job is done which is being noticed. Take pride in that and keep pushing. It sounds like you have no risk of becoming complacent which is also a big plus. 
GDO
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BDM
A lot of people feel that way. But to be honest your problably more skilled than you think. 

and yes just fake it till you become it. 
BCD
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BDR
Right there with you
ThatannoyingSDR
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Enterprise SDR
You get to decide what "the best" is 

I'm not necessarily the best at cold calling, but nobody works harder than me - that's how I keep the imposter syndrome away. 
You get to decide what "successful" means - just cos someone else has a definition of success doesn't mean you have to subscribe to it! 
MR.StretchISR
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I’ve been faking it for years. I even worked at a C Suite consulting company. Its not until you have to talk to someone who knows nothing that you realize how much you actually know. You know way more than you believe right now and it’s translating into success.
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