How should S/O's split finances in this scenario?
-You're dating for about a year or 2.
-Live separately.
-You make about 50-75% more than your S/O.
If I make ~50% more than my S/O then I think this:
-Going out to dinner is normally 50/50. Occasionally, I would like to treat.
-Same with drinks.
-Occasionally I like to buy them random gifts/surprises here or there with no expectation of getting something in return.
-Neither of us should nickel & dime. Not going to Venmo request you for a coffee and you should not either, Ubers etc.
-If we vacation, that is always 50/50.
-If I call to do something a little more extravagant out of the blue, I'll offer to either cover all of it or most of it.
-I don't believe in a 50/50 mindset but rather a 100/100.
-Also note that we go out a lot.
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