Got burned in an interview

wanted your guys opinion here. currently I work for an SI partner in the meantime until the tech industry gets more stable or I find a great company with great PMF. 

I recently had an interview with another SI (not happy where I am at). I'm pretty well connected with the people at the saas company we implement for, I got to the panel killed it, multi-threaded very well and the hiring manager was keen on hiring me for the role. 

SI partners put a lot of emphasis on your channel relationships. we spoke about a lot of similar people we knew but I was very specific on where I stood with each person, didnt embellish relationships, and was careful to not mention people who i know wouldn't say nice things about me. 

without my permission they reached out to a few leaders in the space that align to me and said "your relationships aren't as strong as we like because one of our contacts in the channel does not use you on a consistent basis". they ended up passing on me because of this. 

that seems like the HR version of someone talked shit about me or a bullshit excuse. I don't think someone saying "oh yeah we know him - we just don't use him right now" is a good enough reason to pass on a candidate when I didn't embellish or lie about where I stand with anyone. 

I think either they are lying or someone really did talk shit about me - which bothers me a ton because I've worked very hard to build a great reputation. 

what do you all think? 
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Diablo
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Don’t bother about things that are not in your control as it’s only going to stress you, it’s a lame reason to pass on because 1/ you cannot have 100% success with everyone throughout your life 2/ the interviewer is lying
Kosta_Konfucius
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Speaking the truth here!
CuriousFox
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Take it as a sign that you weren't supposed to work there.
jefe
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Amen. Doesn't sound like it'd be a very positive environment.
Pachacuti
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They call me Daddy, Sales Daddy
I once had a HM do his own reference checks on me - ones I didn't provide him and which he wouldn't disclose to me. he also told me that he kept other candidates hanging for months without giving them a thumbs up/down decision. Lesson learned - some people are 🍆's. You're better off in the long run not working for that
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GDO
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BDM
It sucks but it is not something you can change or do anything about. On to the next
HVACexpert
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Sounds maybe like they already had a favorite and came up with a bullshit excuse not to move forward with you
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Retired Sales Professional
You can only control the controllable. In this case you can't control how the interviewer felt or who they spoke to, but you have 100% control over how you feel about the situation. It's their lose and you should move on to another company, that one sounds toxic.
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