How do I box out my competitors?

I sell a rather boutique solution that rarely beats our competitors price, but often in quality. How do I talk to my prospects about competitors. Sometimes I've sent side-by-side comparisons in emails, sometimes i've complimented my competitors. How do I box out my competitors when talking to prospects?

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braintank
Politicker
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Enterprise Account Executive
Find a unique and defensible differentiator for your product and make it part of the prospects minimum required capabilities. 
ChickenDinner
Politicker
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Account Executive
ok, what do you mean by defensible?
paddy
WR Officer
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Director of Business Development
Honestly, just find their weaknesses and absolutely shit on them. Don't listen to the "well shitting on your competitor isn't a good idea because blah blah blah".
Fuck that. This is war. Fling your shit at them from a mile away my sweet little nipple cranberry cupcake.
UrAssIsSaaS
Arsonist
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SaaS Eater
Anyone that thinks this is wrong has never sold a thing in their life. 
braintank
Politicker
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Enterprise Account Executive
I usually temper it a bit with "They're a great company, but here's why all of their clients are leaving them for us..."
UrAssIsSaaS
Arsonist
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SaaS Eater
Shhhhh your giving away all of Paddys secrets. There are always real nuggets in there, you just gotta pull em out. 
paddy
WR Officer
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Director of Business Development
No! Why on earth would you compliment them?? Might as well just let them fuck your wife in front of you
funcoupons
WR Officer
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👑
I say “if you sign with x you’re a fucking coward and you will never get top shelf pussy like me.” Works every time. 
braintank
Politicker
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Enterprise Account Executive
I mean, Enron was a great company too. 

But I like your advice. 

Can change to "Yes I acknowledge they exist, but..."

Or is that still giving them too much?
paddy
WR Officer
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Director of Business Development
Sure. Either take the path of acknolwedging they exist and pounding them harder than I pounded @funcoupons in Cabo in '95, or pretend like you've never heard of them
Filth
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Live Filthy or Die Clean
Look out @paddy your illegitimate love/Kahlua mistake is going to find you from this post.
CuriousFox
WR Officer
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There's got to be something that sets you apart. 
braintank
Politicker
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Enterprise Account Executive
You'd be surprised ;)
funcoupons
WR Officer
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👑
I suggest homicide 
RealPatrickBateman
Politicker
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🔪Amateur Butcher🔪
THIS IS THE WAYYYYYYYYYY
Sunbunny31
Politicker
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Sr Sales Executive 🐰
Always always always have your differentiation in mind when speaking with a customer.   You may not even need to mention your competition by name when you can separate your solution effectively (or you can sneer "unlike the competition..." if you must).    But you absolutely need to know, and let your customers know, what makes your product/solution/company/services better than anybody else's.
TreTime
Catalyst
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Account Executive
As most everyone commented. It's all about framing. You have to frame the conversations around your differentiation. Make the buyer criteria involve your differentiation. Prop it with testimonials, industry knowledge, as @paddy said - if you know they are also talking to competitors - you have to call out the deficiencies in their products.

The key is to not vomit it all out at once.

TennisandSales
Politicker
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Head Of Sales
1. you have to give them a really good buying experience. Dont be shady on pricing, dont make them jump through hoops, ect. 

2. find out what the customer has as their #1 need. Then you need to explain why you do that better than your competitor. 

if you cant do it better, than you might not be the best option so make sure you understand their needs 100%
ego
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Bartender
Be sexier than their reps. Halo effect never fails
Pachacuti
Politicker
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They call me Daddy, Sales Daddy
That's a great question.  And hard to answer.  

I have gone completely negative on competitors with both positive and negative results - it depends on your audience.

I have also tried to take the high road and talk just about my widget's positive aspects - also with both positive and negative results.

I like side-by-side feature comparisons to determine best bang for my buck, but that's me personally.  

In a presentation I like to have 3-4 differentiators and then do discovery around their needs.  So at the end of the day I can say "you said these 2-3 things are important to you.  We do <x,y,&z> better than anyone else".

Hope that helps.