This is new...

Well, by the end of last week, I couldn't be more excited.


After being on the job hunt for four months, I completed the final round interview with the CRO, where I successfully shared my 30-60-90 day plan.


I was told they got it down to three candidates and that I was the top choice after each round. The team's only debates were based on whether the other two candidates ranked 2nd or 3rd.


I spoke with the recruiter, who wanted my commitment to the role. He even asked for my address to send a company computer and wanted my T-shirt size for all the cool swag.


He mentioned it might take some time to get the official letter out, for it needed to be checked by their legal team, and the sales team was headed out to a tradeshow this week.


Instead of getting a message with an attachment, I got an email this morning saying they decided to move in a different direction.


It was all there. It was nice getting to go into the weekend and realizing all the hard work I put in was finally paying off.


To hear that I was a top choice throughout the process was a breath of fresh air and helped me get past all the no's I've received along the way.


I'm fully aware that nothing is official until there is pen to paper on an agreement, but this has got to be an all-time low.

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antiASKHOLE
Tycoon
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Bravado's Resident Asshole
That is mind blowing and a scummy move. Did they give any other reason as to why they went in a different direction.

also, are they still sending you the swag? if you get it still, that is the ultimate slap on the pecker.
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Business Development
All I got was "The competition for this has been super competitive and you were one of the best candidates we interviewed...."

So, what changed? No idea. I'll be sure to call this recruiter until I get a real explanation.

Idk if I'm still getting any swag, but if I do, I'll be sure to do my best impression of Cavs fans who burned Lebron's jersey after he went to Miami
CadenceCombat
Tycoon
6
Account Executive
Wow. No words.

Iโ€™m actively looking for opportunities as well and the thought of this happening really stings.

Hope itโ€™s a blessing in disguise and something better plops on your lap.
Filth
Politicker
5
Live Filthy or Die Clean
They were out of the Tshirts in your size and went with a candidate that fit in the medium.

All seriousness - totally fucked up. Sorry comrade.

Keep your head up, if you were at the top of their list you're in demand at other orgs. Find a way to sell against them and have fun getting sweet revenge and commish.
CuriousFox
WR Officer
4
๐ŸฆŠ
Background check? Drug test? Anything like that you can think of that would have hurt you?
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Business Development
None of that was brought up They needed my commitment since it took "time to get an offer letter out."
Pachacuti
Politicker
4
They call me Daddy, Sales Daddy
Seen it before - they might have gone with someone internal or the successful candidate had a high up connection to someone in the company.

You should ask for an explanation. They owe you that. And more than just "the other person was a better fit" nonsense.
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Business Development
I'll continue to be persistent with it until I do get that information.
Fenderbaum
Politicker
3
Retired Choirboy๐Ÿช•
That's a straight prick move on their part. These days people get away with unprofessional behavior because nobody calls them out. You may have dodged the proverbial bullet with this one... and remember, karma has no deadline.
Space_Ghost20
Valued Contributor
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Account Executive
Yeah I had a company do something similar back in 2021. Recruiter reached out to say the official offer letter was on its way shortly, but sent a copy of the benefits package for me to review. Next day I get the "not moving forward with you" email instead of an offer letter. It didn't upset me that much because I was interviewing with a few different places and they weren't a company I really wanted to work for anyway. Still, was a little unprofessional.
DungeonsNDemos
Big Shot
2
Rolling 20's all day
That just straight sucks. Iโ€™m sorry to hear that this happened to you. If anything it reflects poorly on them and you can go work at a better company
Maximas
Tycoon
2
Senior Sales Executive
All what I'll be doing in this case is to call or to reply the recruitment team back and forwarding that email to them to validate if that was a legit or not and take it from there.

Hopefully you will be taken into a further step to start working ASAP!

Best of luck.
Sunbunny31
Politicker
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Sr Sales Executive ๐Ÿฐ
Iโ€™m so sorry this happened to you. Itโ€™s horrible behavior on their part. I hope you are able to get to the bottom of what happened and what changed.
Diablo
Politicker
1
Sr. AE
This is damn annoying without reasoning, sorry to hear that.

I can only guess that they got someone who committed plus accepted lower offer.
F5onrepeat
Politicker
1
Sales minion
This happens far too often. If this is how they treat folks they're hoping to bring into the company, imagine how they treat people who are stuck there.
ChiefGreef45
Catalyst
0
Account Executive
Totally agree, the next step before signing was reaching out to the other AEโ€™s.
detectivegibbles
Politicker
0
Sales Director
Brother I'm sorry to hear this. Gutpunch for sure. Take time to process but it's evident you have desirable skills and experience.

Curious, was the recruiter relaying all of this information? Or was the "Top candidate choice" coming from someone at the company?
ChiefGreef45
Catalyst
0
Account Executive
I was told I was the top candidate out of the 3 they were considering from the CRO
detectivegibbles
Politicker
0
Sales Director
Yeah thatโ€™s pretty whack. Iโ€™m sorry dude.

I donโ€™t understand why companies tell candidates if theyโ€™re โ€œtop choicesโ€ during interview process.

Itโ€™s misleading and ethically wrong.
TennisandSales
Politicker
0
Head Of Sales
WOOOOW! this is a new level of low for sure. (well besides taking away an offer i guess) have you been able to get any sort of explanation?
ChiefGreef45
Catalyst
0
Account Executive
Nothing yet. Working on it still.
WheelofCheese
Opinionated
0
Sales Executive
WHAT?!!! My mind is blown. Completely unprofessional, misleading, and disrespectful. Iโ€™m very sorry to hear. Then again, if this is how the company operates, you may have dodged a bullet. Sheesh.
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