Worst feedback from a CEO

Story time

Cold LI message from a CEO of a boutique consulting firm. Know him from before when he was an AE.

Asked me to consider an open VP of BD role on their team. Fits my background and I am in the market.

I say sure and fulfill the request for an updated resume.

Goes dark for 3 weeks and I nurture once a week to push top of mind.

Finally get the feedback of: your time in role has been too short the past few years. We want someone who wants to stick around.

I nearly smashed my keyboard. Here's why:

1) You asked me to apply. I didn't come to you.
2) You can see my LinkedIn profile with the same dates as my resume. Did you read it?
3) Since 2017 I have been a part of 3 acquisitions that made me redundant. I picked good horses and you're penalizing me for success. Cool.
4) I was laid off twice in 2023. I had no control over two 5-month stints.

If you're a hiring manager and you're worried about tenure, why aren't you qualifying the tenure before placing a black mark on the resume? Especially when I put the reason for leaving as my FIRST BULLET on every role. Transparency is a gift I give in spades.

Anyways, rant over.
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Sunbunny31
Politicker
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Sr Sales Executive 🐰
Was the rejection from the CEO or from the hiring manager? Because if it’s the latter, you bet I’m messaging that CEO with a what the hell?

Actually, if the rejection is from the CEO, I’m doing the same. Literally what the hell?
poweredbycaffeine
WR Lieutenant
1
☕️
CEO was in charge of the process the entire way.
Sunbunny31
Politicker
2
Sr Sales Executive 🐰
What. The. Hell.
oldcloser
Arsonist
7
💀
You called me, you miserable douche bottle.
Sorry dude- just wrong.
poweredbycaffeine
WR Lieutenant
1
☕️
Forget about me referring anyone to you who has the platform you consult on.
unclespacejam
Politicker
7
ur dad’s brother
Dog all You gotta do is say the word and I will hunt this dick scab down and piss in his ear while he’s asleep.

Lemme know and I’ll start hydratin
poweredbycaffeine
WR Lieutenant
2
☕️
You don’t have to get ready if you stay ready. Keep that hydroflask on me.
SalesBeast
Politicker
4
Sales Leader
Bluntly state exactly what you just told us.
My reply roughly- ‘Sir, you asked me to apply and then rejected me. Why did you ask me to reply if you didn’t want me? Also I cannot help the fact that 2023 was a bad year for many companies. It was just bad luck getting canned from companies that were having issues and was not performance based layoffs.
Was hopeful with our past, and you reaching out to me, that you might be able to overlook the 2 recent shorter stints.’
poweredbycaffeine
WR Lieutenant
1
☕️
I did that and guess what I got: crickets.
SalesBeast
Politicker
1
Sales Leader
Well f him then. Glad you spoke up
Gasty
Notable Contributor
3
War Room Community Manager
Now this is just bad!

I remember there was once, I had applied to some role went through 3 rounds of interview and I worked hard for that; then when they started ghosting me, I reached out to get an update and the HR told me that you do not have sufficient experience.

I mean, you could’ve checked my resume or my LinkedIn; Why to waste time?
poweredbycaffeine
WR Lieutenant
1
☕️
Why am I here, ya know?
TheDude
Politicker
3
Partnerships Lead
Damn bro. That sucks. Move on and take the high road.
poweredbycaffeine
WR Lieutenant
1
☕️
I gave feedback with the intent to help with his future process. My work is done.
jefe
Arsonist
3
🍁
That's so frustrating, and shouldn't be happening.

I'm wondering if somebody they thought was out of the running came back in.. that's the only explanation aside from the CEO being useless.

Also, none of those things are reasons to pass you over.
CuriousFox
WR Officer
3
🦊
Hold the fuck up. Are you saying the dude that begged you to apply is also the dude that sent you that lame canned rejection?

If so, did you piss this dude off before and this is his revenge? Is he slow? What the fuck? Want me to bite him? 🦊
poweredbycaffeine
WR Lieutenant
1
☕️
Use your rabbis to get this bish.
pirate
Big Shot
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🦜☠️ Account Executive
So you know him or worked with before when he was AE? Anyway what a dickhead
poweredbycaffeine
WR Lieutenant
0
☕️
I knew him when he was an AE for the company that he then started a consulting firm to run implementations and long term strategy for.
TennisandSales
Politicker
2
Head Of Sales
fuck that is annoying! literally NO excuse for companies to be doing this shit still. 🤦‍♂️
poweredbycaffeine
WR Lieutenant
0
☕️
Especially ones that are <10 people.
886GFl
Opinionated
2
Account Executive
Did they have a grudge against you!? Wow that’s just crazy.
poweredbycaffeine
WR Lieutenant
1
☕️
Some people don’t know how to hire or recruit.
HappyGilmore
Politicker
2
Account Executive
Wow talk about taking a flamethrower to any respect you had for this guy. What a waste of time sorry about this PBC.
hola
Valued Contributor
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sales consultant
people are dicks - I also lied on my resume to make it look I've been at places longer idc because this job market is survival of the fittest. do the same for yourself
Justatitle
Big Shot
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Account Executive
Yeah, the fact that he messaged you on LI where he can see your job history to begin with is infuriating. You probably avoided a disaster though
braintank
Politicker
1
Enterprise Account Executive
What a prick...
poweredbycaffeine
WR Lieutenant
0
☕️
I respected him. Lost that.
detectivegibbles
Politicker
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Sales Director
This is infuriating, mind-blowing, and frankly insulting. Sorry PBC. Is there any downfall to shooting this CEO a message back with the feedback you mentioned?

I would...in respectable less colorful language of course.
poweredbycaffeine
WR Lieutenant
0
☕️
Yeah, I already gave the feedback in a more polished manner. Crickets.
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