Do you chameleon, or do you peacock?

There seems to be two schools of thought when it comes to personal presentation - either match the client and blend in to make them feel comfortable or bombastically contrast the client to be memorable. I've seen both be very successful. On one hand, you have the guy with the navy blue Nike golf shirt, Docker Khakis, and a high and tight haircut. On the other hand you have the guy in a gold sequin suit and top hat who probably has coke in his back pocket.


Which are you?

Do you intentionally blend in, or intentionally stand out?

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jefe
Arsonist
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LordOfWar
Tycoon
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Blow it up
Aim for the bushes
DungeonsNDemos
Big Shot
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Rolling 20's all day
Time to do my Friday desk pop!
jefe
Arsonist
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That's a real thing, right?!
DungeonsNDemos
Big Shot
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Rolling 20's all day
Oh, 100%. It's the only way I can keep the SDRs afraid enough to ask me stupid questions on a Friday
SaaSsy
Politicker
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AE
Hahaha this describes me talking to management and then totally chameleoning to prospects 5 minutes later.
Mobi85
Politicker
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Regional Sales Manager
well done, was expecting to see this here and you did not let me down.
antiASKHOLE
Tycoon
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Bravado's Resident Asshole
I selected the first option, just because of the quote @jefeso kindly provided. Hilarious movie and it wins hands down.
jefe
Arsonist
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Thought you'd like that ;)
CuriousFox
WR Officer
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I'm fabulous ๐ŸฆŠ
LordOfWar
Tycoon
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Blow it up
Pea-mealeon or whatever. I naturally want to fit into their vibe but also have to be the center of attention.
Sunbunny31
Politicker
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Sr Sales Executive ๐Ÿฐ
Yeah, I didn't pick that because the mention of facial tattoos was too much.
DungeonsNDemos
Big Shot
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Rolling 20's all day
I'm somewhere around a pea-melon. I want to shape the conversation but match their comfort level.
Still need to get my face tattoo scheduled.
Gasty
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War Room Community Manager
pee cock
playerone
Politicker
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Regional Account Executive
Iโ€™ve been in sales too long that I over mirror match sometimes and end up talking like them so I try to peacock a little more nowadays
SoccerandSales
Big Shot
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Account Executive
Iโ€™ve found that I do something similar when I try to mirror vibes on a call, so I have given up and go completely as myself into all calls.
playerone
Politicker
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Regional Account Executive
Yeah if they have an accent I have to be careful
ChickenDinner
Politicker
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Account Executive
I think you're just asking about appearance but this question goes so much deeper. How much do we contextualize our language and behavior toward our audience or be distinct? A classic tension to hold
Kosta_Konfucius
Politicker
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Sales Rep
Gotta do peacock, the attention is already on you so might as well
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