I wanted to write a follow up post to my last one.
2 important themes came up in the comments:
- i want to talk about it but dont know how
- I make the most, what do i do?
- Remember the goal about sharing your comp, is to HELP others, not brag about it. so always check your ego savages.
- im always careful to talk about comp when its appropriate. this time of year is always good because companies do performance reviews. So if you have a productive conversation with others, then there is a way to actually take action. nothing worse then getting all hot and bothered and then having to just sit and do nothing about it.
2 This is tricky. when you start talking about comp and YOU make the most it can turn ppl against you. I have had these conversations 3 different times in my career and 2 of them it was not an issue. the 3rd time it destroyed the relationship with the person (she made more than me, and i feel like it was more on her than me doing something to hurt the relationship you know?)
If you are talking about comp and you make more than everyone, remember a few things:
- Ppl are going to be jealous, you cant stop that. but try not to make it personal.
- If you can help make suggestion on how others can get to where you are, they will really value you for it.
- Many times ppl just DONT KNOW whats possible. so sharing your experience could change the trajectory of that persons career if they know whats possible.
- You need to make sure you have a good relationship with the ppl you are talking comp with. If you dont have a good relationship with that person, i dont think it will be very successful.
what are your thoughts?
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