BitcoinAddict

I took months off from work due to loss of a parent, how do I explain this?

Back in 2021, a parent of mines died suddenly and instead of the typical 2 weeks of bereavement, I had to take almost a year off due to how the situation affected my siblings, extended family, and a host of other things. I pretty much took off the job market in that time.

How do I explain this? Is it unusual to have bereavement last that long?

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medhardwaredr

Opinionated

Director of Sales NA

Dude, don’t sweat things like that. Just tell them a parent died. Any company that doesn’t acknowledge that and holds it against you is not worth a damn.

jefe

Arsonist

🍁

Exactly this.

Sorry for your loss. Fuck anyone who doesn't respect that.

BitcoinAddict

Opinionated

I greatly appreciate this!

BitcoinAddict

Opinionated

Thank you man!

medhardwaredr

Opinionated

Director of Sales NA

Sorry for your loss

Kosta_Konfucius

Politicker

Sales Rep

99% will understand, the other 1% you don’t want to work for

HVACexpert

Politicker

sales engineer

Exactly

BitcoinAddict

Opinionated

Well said and well put

Abika

Executive

Business Development Manager

True dat

bonez

Politicker

Account Executive

You just explained it perfectly here my dude. You can list it as a personal time off for bereavement. I've worked with so many people that have had to do this and it really didn't affect their careers. Most orgs understand you sometimes have to take the time off to handle your personal life. I wouldn't stress about this and would just be prepared to talk about it during an interview.

BitcoinAddict

Opinionated

Thank you good sir.

Retired Sales Professional

If they can't understand the effects of losing a parent, your talking about the person that's the reason for your existence then the heck with that organization.

BitcoinAddict

Opinionated

Well said.

oldcloser

Arsonist

💀

Just like you just done did. If that ain’t good enough, you gotta find a human to work for.

BitcoinAddict

Opinionated

Humans are not a given these days in the work force

oldcloser

Arsonist

💀

☝️ fact

NoToBANT

Catalyst

Senior Account Executive

Firstly, I’m sorry for your loss

Secondly, as mentioned by others, if a company holds this against you - fuck them! Seriously, fuck them!

BitcoinAddict

Opinionated

Thank you.

pirate

Big Shot

🦜☠️ Account Executive

I am sorry for your loss. If someone has something against that, I would not work there

BitcoinAddict

Opinionated

I appreciate this.

Diablo

Politicker

Sr. AE

Sorry to hear that. There is nothing more to add, that’s all you can say and I’m sure people understand

Founding BDR

Explain it to them like you did to us, and if they have any sort of issue with that, you wouldn’t want to work for that org anyways

BitcoinAddict

Opinionated

I appreciate this

Sunbunny31

Politicker

Sr Sales Executive 🐰

So sorry for your loss. I’ll add my vote to the others - you took time off to take care of family matters. It’s completely reasonable and understandable.

BitcoinAddict

Opinionated

Thank You.

Justatitle

Big Shot

Account Executive

Exactly as you have laid it out here. There is nothing wrong with this being said if they ask.

BitcoinAddict

Opinionated

Thank you.

Fenderbaum

Politicker

Retired Choirboy🪕

Everybody handles grief in different ways. In your situation, with siblings affected, extended family, etc., issues needed to be handled, and whatever those issues are/were, they are certainly far more important to you than the job market. Most people can't comprehend the impact of a parent's passing until they actually go through the experience.
You made a huge sacrifice by putting others ahead of yourself. That is commendable, and speaks volumes about your character.

CuriousFox

WR Officer

🦊

I'm so sorry for your loss ❤

ForecastReady

President & Founder

Firstly, sorry for your loss. Second, I’d suggest just state that there was a death in your immediate family circle, or say directly it was on of your parents, and you were needed to support the balance of your family. Any company worth their salt will understand.

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I took months off from work due to loss of a parent, how do I explain this?

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