Got ghosted

yeah... 

not in like work, and if they don't show up I call them at least once a day every single day. Like not answering the phone doesn't mean they're not interested, they just could be busy! 

however, 

I talked to a girl, like sober talked to a girl and if you've been following me, you know I'm usually drunk when I go to bars. pre 2024, I don't think ever just gone up to a girl sober and asked her out. Maybe it was in college and we had class together so that's different, but like being out and doing it completely new. 

we had a good convo, got her number, but got ghosted. I hit her with her with a follow up text congratulating her for the chiefs win instant response, asked her out this weekend, ghosted again. 

So coming to the war room for some dating advice. 

1. the only reason I'm getting emotional is because my pipeline isn't full. 

2. Just not the right product, and maybe should've asked more fact finding questions and gave a better demo. so that's on me. Like maybe could've found out she's not looking to go out on dates, she's just looking to go home with somebody. Okay, cool we're not aligned there. End it at that. 

3. she's just not interested, goes back to not the right product, but that's my fault if I didnt give enough reasons to make her interested. 

So need some veteran advice bc I know most of you guys are married and Ik it's crazy bc 6 months ago, I would never ask for relationship advice bc I didn't want a relationship, but now I write down my goals every single day and being in a loving and healthy relationship is one of them. 

so thoughts and inputs are appreciated.