Got ghosted


yeah...ย 

not in like work, and if they don't show up I call them at least once a day every single day. Like not answering the phone doesn't mean they're not interested, they just could be busy!ย 

however,ย 

I talked to a girl, like sober talked to a girl and if you've been following me, you know I'm usually drunk when I go to bars. pre 2024, I don't think ever just gone up to a girl sober and asked her out. Maybe it was in college and we had class together so that's different, but like being out and doing it completely new.ย 

we had a good convo, got her number, but got ghosted. I hit her with her with a follow up text congratulating her for the chiefs win instant response, asked her out this weekend, ghosted again.ย 

So coming to the war room for some dating advice.ย 

1. the only reason I'm getting emotional is because my pipeline isn't full.ย 

2. Just not the right product, and maybe should've asked more fact finding questions and gave a better demo. so that's on me. Like maybe could've found out she's not looking to go out on dates, she's just looking to go home with somebody. Okay, cool we're not aligned there. End it at that.ย 

3. she's just not interested, goes back to not the right product, but that's my fault if I didnt give enough reasons to make her interested.ย 

So need some veteran advice bc I know most of you guys are married and Ik it's crazy bc 6 months ago, I would never ask for relationship advice bc I didn't want a relationship, but now I write down my goals every single day and being in a loving and healthy relationship is one of them.ย 

so thoughts and inputs are appreciated.ย 

Advice

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Founding BDR
I voted leave as is and build the pipeline but after reading the comments above, give it a little extra. Definitely not married so maybe not the advice youโ€™d be looking for, but thereโ€™s no harm in taking another swing at bat
oldcloser
Arsonist
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This one only depends if you're seeing a conquest, or a human being you're legit interested in. If it's the former, do her the favor and let it go. If it's the latter, be a human being and try again.
wolfofmiami
Opinionated
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Im legit interested I asked her out on a date. I usually donโ€™t do that. And if it was just hooking up, I wouldnโ€™t get this emotional about it
oldcloser
Arsonist
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Then put on your creative hat and get irresistible. You got this- no doubt you can win a heart.
wolfofmiami
Opinionated
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โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ no deal touch Wednesday it is. Stalk insta and find something sheโ€™s interested in and then ask her out to that thing
wolfofmiami
Opinionated
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She texted back
oldcloser
Arsonist
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Must live vicariously through you on this. Report back at next milestone.
CuriousFox
WR Officer
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You got your answer. Leave her alone.
wolfofmiami
Opinionated
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I was thinking abt FaceTiming her
wolfofmiami
Opinionated
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She texted back
J.J.McLure
Catalyst
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Owner at *redacted*
My now wife of 12 years was the first girl I ever actually dated and the only one in my pipeline. We started by being friends, anytime I tried being more she would ghost me, but she never said no and I knew this was the girl I wanted to marry.

So Iโ€™ll echo @oldcloser If itโ€™s more, keep trying. Be open and honest, thatโ€™s a rarity as everyone tries to play the game

oldcloser
Arsonist
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pirate
Big Shot
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๐Ÿฆœโ˜ ๏ธ Account Executive
I think when I was single... it was exhausting dating and the whole Tinder and all the dating apps were like hi and bye. And it took so much effort. From my female perspective: I would just write her a line that you thought you had a really good convo but maybe you misread that. You would be really interested in seeing her again and maybe a convo + smarts + looks compliment and then let it be for a week and then move on.
Sunbunny31
Politicker
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Sr Sales Executive ๐Ÿฐ
This is the only further outreach I'd try. If this doesn't work, it's time to move on.
wolfofmiami
Opinionated
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It wasnโ€™t from tinder I just went up and talked to her lol but dating is exhausting. Just going to focus on my work goals
pirate
Big Shot
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๐Ÿฆœโ˜ ๏ธ Account Executive
I get you, it just takes all the juice out of you haha so it does not matter where you meet the people. You just moved to Miami, I am sure you will get to know lots of girls
wolfofmiami
Opinionated
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๐Ÿบ
I hope so ๐Ÿคญ
Pachacuti
Politicker
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They call me Daddy, Sales Daddy
Just like the movie says โ€œsheโ€™s just not that into youโ€. Lots of fish out there.
wolfofmiami
Opinionated
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๐Ÿบ
Tough
wolfofmiami
Opinionated
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She texted back 1 week later
DataCorrupter
Politicker
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Account Executive
She sounds like a "warm lead" that put in a fake email address and number. That's should tell you all you need to know. Let this one go.
wolfofmiami
Opinionated
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I put my number in her phone
DataCorrupter
Politicker
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Account Executive
Iโ€™m using your sales analogy here. Iโ€™m not saying she actually gave you a wrong number, clearly the post says thatโ€™s not the case.
wolfofmiami
Opinionated
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No I know, but Ik thatโ€™s not the case. Might just be wrong product
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